[He has said his piece about the drowning, so no more will be said on it! At least...the rest of the message seemed normal enough, if 'normal' for Yashiro and Doumeki's standards....]
I know that Yashiro tends to engage in his masochistic sex regularly- [-which is the nice way of saying 'with every man he can'-] -so I think we need to focus on that gentleness aspect. You want to differentiate the sex he has with you, to the rest. Yours should be special to him. Because you are special to him!
So we have the problem of Yashiro instinctively pulling away when you try to bring that gentleness into the sex you two have, even if he may enjoy it. I did have a thought, on that - have you considered, or already tried, introducing a bit more of it during Iris? I know he and I both get a lot more affectionate and gentle during that moon phase, so it could be a good introductory point.
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[He has said his piece about the drowning, so no more will be said on it! At least...the rest of the message seemed normal enough, if 'normal' for Yashiro and Doumeki's standards....]
I know that Yashiro tends to engage in his masochistic sex regularly- [-which is the nice way of saying 'with every man he can'-] -so I think we need to focus on that gentleness aspect. You want to differentiate the sex he has with you, to the rest. Yours should be special to him. Because you are special to him!
So we have the problem of Yashiro instinctively pulling away when you try to bring that gentleness into the sex you two have, even if he may enjoy it. I did have a thought, on that - have you considered, or already tried, introducing a bit more of it during Iris? I know he and I both get a lot more affectionate and gentle during that moon phase, so it could be a good introductory point.